About Despina

About Despina Learmonth

I am happily married with a 28-year-old-son, and two beautiful step-daughters. I have one grandchild and another one the way!

When I was 27, I went through a marriage separation and become a single-mum of a 2-year-old son. During this time I went through a paradigm shift in my life, and about 2 years later I had a dream.

In this dream I was clearly instructed to move North, and long story short, I moved from Sydney, to the Gold Coast in Queensland, Australia.

I went through several years of awakening and attending self-development courses. This is where my path of self-discovery and healing really began. I experienced soul connection, spirit intuition, the power within me, and even aliens (friendly) which I was not expecting.

Throughout my adult life, I had always sought help from a counsellor or life couch, because personally, I never liked feeling stuck. I've always had a need to figure things out

It was this passion that inspired me to study, learning about life coaching, energy work, hypnotherapy, Reiki, and other modalities. I have had many teachers over the years and have loved learning from their experience and unique individual gifts!

In 2013, I experienced what no mother should ever have to go through. My son was diagnosed with Stage 4 Hodgkins Lymphoma. It was the most challenging and testing time of my life.

My son has always been incredibly strong and brave. He is now doing extraordinary, however still on his own healing journey.

During this time, I had the option to stop my studies, and let the weight of the event lower me into apathy, fear and anxiety. But I kept turning up to my weekly appointments, and it was my teachers, learnings and spiritual support that has and continues to carry me forward through my life.

Seeking help in life can be the difference between living averagely, and living extraordinarily. Overcoming and working through your life's unique challenges will transform your life for the better. From 1996 to now, every course, teacher, learning, meditation has contributed to me now being in my 50's and feeling better than ever. I've spent over 200,00 hours meditating, and hundreds of thousands in coaching and courses - because I believe the reward is worth it.

The main lesson here is to be your own hero, leader and healer. You are the only one who can save you and make you truly happy. You have the power to change within you, and some of the most powerful tools are as simple as mediation and prayer.

Find your own spiritual path and follow it to your purpose. If you have an open mind, discipline and focus, you can reach higher knowledge and liberation.

Faith and trust in my path is what has kept me strong through life, and lead me to gain the wisdom and life experience I now share with you.

To not only survive, but to thrive in life you have to be aware of the paradox of being powerful and powerless. The only way to truly feel powerful, is to recognise how powerless we really are in the larger scheme of things. To understand how small our sphere of influence is, means we become empowered to do things that will have an impact. We suffer to get well. We surrender to win. We die to live. You must move past yourself, to be able to truly be there for others, and become a positive force and light in the world.

About Despina learmonth

A little about me….My name is Despina Learmonth, happily married, 1 28 year old son, 2 beautiful step daughters, one grandchild and another on its way! at the age of 27 after my marriage separation and being a single mum of the 2 year old.

I went through a paradigm shift in my life at the age of 27 after a marriage separtion and was then a single mum of 18month year old!

About 2 years later I had a dream and in my dream I clearly was instructed to ‘move up North’. Long story short I moved from Sydney to the Gold Coast in Queensland, Australia.

Over several years of my great ‘awakening’  I had gone to a couple of self-development weekend courses that said were for anyone that wanted to ‘change their life’, or healing from something or situation.

Courses

Book

Coaching

That’s when my path of self-discovery, learning and healing journey really began. I experienced soul connection, spirit, intuition, the power within me and even aliens (friendly) which I was not expecting. I always sought help from either a counsellor, life coach or healer all my adult life. Personally, I never liked feeling ‘stuck’. I had to figure things out. “Why why why did this happen to me?” I then went on to study with her for about 7 years, learning about Life Coaching, energy work, hypnotherapy, Reiki and Seishm master and other modalities. I have studies numerology, Buddhism, multidimentiality and I am a truth seeker. I have had and still have multi teachers with each of them with their area of expertise and gifts, that I love and value so much!

In the middle of my course, about 2013 I had the biggest nightmare that no mother ever wants to go through and that was a cancer diagnosis of my son. 4th stage Hodgkins lymphoma. That was the most challenging, testing time. My son  has been very brave and strong and has and is doing extraordinary however still in on the healing journey himself. I could have stopped my studies, collapsed in a deep depression, apathy, fear, anxiety, but I didn’t I kept turning up to my weekly appointment and my teachers and my learnings and spiritual support and connection is what carries me through my life and forward. It’s so easy to give up, give in.

Everyone has their unique set of circumstances, life challenges and patterns. I’ll call it ‘’self help” can really help you have a great life instead of an average life. Overcoming, working through, transforming and transmuting rather than being a victim, defeated, weakened and  beated down. Now in my 50’s I’ve never felt better, on all levels. From 1996 to now 2021 every course, teacher, learning included meditation and a holistic or approach, which is addressing the body, mind and spirit. I’ve spent of 220,000 hours meditating. Spent over $100,000 in coaching and cources and have, I believe reaped the reward. Its deep soul work. For myself , my ancestry and the global family.

The lesson here is be your own hero, leader and healer. No-one outside of you can ‘heal’ you, save you, make you feel better. The point of power and change is with-in you. The single one most powerful tool is meditation and prayer. Intuition and imagination. Following your own passion, path, purpose! Find a path and follow it. That is, a spiritual path, like the path of Jesus or Buddha. There are many of cource ‘paths’ to healing, awakening and liberation. That will take you deep, inside of you, into the nature of our true nature. An open mind, higher knowledge and learning and discipline and focus was needed. It is  faith and trust has kept me strong and I have gained much big life experience and wisdom.

My heart even though is still sad I have reverence, love and respect To ‘survive’ and thrive you have to be aware of the nothing and everything, that we are. The paradox of being powerful and powerless. “Our powerlessness displays the magnificent power of God”. But here’s the paradox: the only way to feel truly powerful is to fully grasp how powerless we are. When we understand how small our sphere of influence is, we are empowered to do those things that will truly have an impact.   We suffer to get well. We surrender to win. We die to live. We give it away to keep it. Life is about a lot of things, a lot to do about self, only when you can ‘get over’ yourself, can you really be there for others and being a positive force and light to others and really make a difference in the world.

created by GEM Software

Terms & Conditions